Self Love

Whats Wrong With Me? | Absolutely Nothing

So  in answer to that question, Whats Wrong With Me?, Absolutely Nothing.  There is Absolutely  Nothing wrong with you.

However, in the spirit of full and brutal honesty – I have thought it myself.

I have been single for ‘years’ and I mean ‘years’…

However, back to you – thinking ‘whats wrong with me’ will keep any Mr or Mrs Right away from you, I can promise you. Whatever questions you are yourself, you Will get answers.

So instead keep asking ‘Whats Right with me’ and you’ll keep getting great answers.

Whats Wrong with me

Having found several gorgeous men and having had partners on and off since I was about 20.. until the age of 42. My ex husband and longest term partner, was a, lovely lovely man and still is, he just wasn’t right for me.  I then fell for what I thought was ‘the grass was greener’ someone who ‘seemed’ the epitome of a gentlemen, who turned out to be a Sheep in wolfs clothing.

My heart was truly trampled on, and I can tell you a various stages in this time I really did think ‘whats wrong with me’..

I tried all sorts of dating, Table for six, Speed dating, Internet dating, you name it.

Once again I met some lovely men, and some not so lovely men. The one who sat there with ONE seat and let me go off and get my own!! Or the one who after I bought the first round, we just sat there with no drinks in front of us, as the waitress cleared our empty glasses.  Now to be kind to men, I realise its not always easy meeting someone for the first time, but seriously how hard is it to Buy a drink?

After these various attempts at dating – I have given it all a Wide birth for the last several years. I have instead worked on me!! and I can categorically say now I Love me. Not in the arragant sense of the word. However, people would definitely call me ‘confident’ these days. Thats not to say that I think every man is going to fall at my feet. Not at all.  Well the fact that they haven’t tells me that.. Gulp.

Believe In Yourself and The World Will too

However, I also know that the one constant in all this, is ME. So whilst I don’t blame myself.. I do sometimes think ‘whats wrong with me’. But this is where my better half aka my better self steps up and says ‘Hey Helen, how about Whats right with me’…

I know whats right with me. I’m kind, warm caring, loving, sensitive, strong, independent.. I could go on, but I won’t. Because at the end of the day – I know I have plenty thats right with me.

I shared this live on Facebook – you can check it out here,

Being confident about yourself, accepting your attributes and knowing  that none of us are perfect, , will absolutely put you in the absolutely best frame of mind to attract that Mr Right, or Mrs.

So how do you find your Mr or Mrs Right

Join Clubs, think of the hobbies you have and go out there and join the clubs.
At the gym, walking, at the cinema.
Start conversations. I read somewhere the other day, how a lady met her husband simply by asking him ‘whats the time please’.

If you haven’t, do try all the ones I’ve mentioned above. Speed dating, internet dating, dinner dates ie Table for 6 or 12 or whatever they offer.

He or She is out there and the more you actually Enjoy Life.. ie just be yourself, get out there, Love and accept yourself. You will meet him or Her… when you least expect  it..

So in the meantime, work on you.  Start Loving you, accentuate your positives,
Accept You are You, wonderful, Strong and Amazing
Wear what you love, what makes you comfortable, whatever makes YOU feel 100 Bucks or even a Million. For me its a bit of lippy, mascara and perfume…

 

Keep me posted, and Ill do the same about me!!

 

With Love

 

Helen

Coaching With Helen aka Be Deliciously Free